Your Seduction Style: Sweet Talker
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Your seduction technique can be summed up with "charm"
You know that if you have the chance to talk to someone...
Well, you won't be talking for long! ;-)
You're great at telling potential lovers what they want to hear.
Partially, because you're a great reflective listener and good at complementing.
The other part of your formula? Focusing your conversation completely on the other person.
Your "sweet talking" ways have taken you far in romance - and in life.
You can finess your way through any difficult situation, with a smile on your face.
Speeding tickets, job interviews... bring it on! You truly live a *charmed life*
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Your Power Color Is Indigo
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At Your Highest:
You are on a fast track to success - and others believe in you.
At Your Lowest:
You require a lot of attention and praise.
In Love:
You see people as how you want them to be, not as how they are.
How You're Attractive:
You're dramatic flair makes others see you as mysterious and romantic.
Your Eternal Question:
"Does This Work Into My Future Plans?"
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Your Ideal Relationship is Serious Dating
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You're not ready to go walking down the aisle.
But you may be ready in a couple of years.
You prefer to date one on one, with a commitment.
And while chemistry is important, so is compatibility.
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You Should Learn French
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C'est super! You appreciate the finer things in life... wine, art, cheese, love affairs.
You are definitely a Parisian at heart. You just need your tongue to catch up...
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What? I stopped liking French the moment i attended lessons. Well.. maybe cuz my good friends werent in my class. n i skipped class as often as i could.
You Should Get a PhD in Liberal Arts (like political science, literature, or philosophy)
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You're a great thinker and a true philosopher.
You'd make a talented professor or writer.
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Like i needed to know that. *rolls eyes* kidding.
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We really look alike. Since young, we've been told. Many ppl hv asked if we were twins/ sisters etc...

When she saw my photo on the web, she used it as her msn avatar.

Her co-worker saw and said "nice pic btw" and thought it was her.
hahaha...
Im going Canada for her wedding when it comes. havent seen her for ages now.
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Mum and i in a Russion restaurant on Saturday noon.
Every weekend, im so tied-up... i cant do what i want to do... i turn down meeting ppl sometimes.
Meeting my mum is one... because i seldom see her... and i want to meet her more.
and attending other occassional events {corporate events or not}as well... becasue i want to keep in contact.
It's not like i have nothing better to do.
Sunday is the only time i cna do what i want... but sadly, im usually worn out by sunday and wld just laze ard.
And by night, i feel damn fucked up... becasue nothing much is accomplished. and work resumes the next day for the next five days.
I really need to do something abt this whole issue. It's stressing me out... thus affecting my work too.
All i want to do on some Fridays is just to recupperate from the week's mad rush.
But i have no choice but to go places, run errands etc. And even if i dont have any, i do my housework. i wld like to just laze at home w jon and twig.
and yes, i still bring home some work to do too... cuz i work better at home.
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1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
3. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
4. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.
5. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
6. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
7. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
8. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
9. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
10. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
11. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
12. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
13. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
14. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
15. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
16. Never let a man define who you are.
17. Never borrow someone else's man.
18. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
19. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
20. All men are NOT dogs.
21. You should not be the one doing all the bending ...compromise is a two way street.
22. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
23. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
24. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
25. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you areand you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
26. Never move into his mother's house.
27. Never co-sign for a man.
28. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.